Contemplating Separation or Divorce

Nothing is being resolved because of failure to communicate.

Maybe you fight a lot; or, even worse, you sometimes don’t talk at all.

Perhaps, you feel more alone with your spouse than with your work colleagues or friends.

Maybe you’ve tried talking to someone, or perhaps you’ve been unable to talk your spouse into getting help together.

Deciding to separate or divorce ushers in a whole new set of issues.

You love your children and wonder if separating from your spouse means losing them, too.

And the money you may spend on separation and divorce weighs heavily on you. How much is it? How much will it cost to take care of the kids in two households? Even if you want to part ways, can you afford it?

Is it any better on the other side anyway? When you aren’t 30 anymore, what’s dating like?

These are not decisions that should be made in isolation.

Divorce conjures a lot of issues that require resolution.

If you are getting a divorce, you have a lot of decisions to make.

For those with children, one primary consideration is taking good care of them, of course. But you may not have a clear idea of how what you do now may impact them later.

How to decide where they live, when, and what kind of co-parenting plans are possible?

These are decisions that should not be made alone, especially when you are in the eye of the storm.

Counseling offers support during the decision-making process.

You don’t have to sit with this confusion and uncertainty alone. Deciding to separate or divorce is one of the most important life transition decisions you will make.

Cherie Morris, our Divorce Coach, will help you create a framework and a team for success.

Perhaps you need the practical information that she can provide to decide what you want to do. Maybe you aren’t sure what that is.

Coaching about mindset and the steps you can take will help. Before you make such a consequential decision, you may want to work with a therapist to think about what else is right and wrong in your life that may need examining, too.

Coaching helps create a plan to address your questions.

If your spouse has left already, you may feel elated but need to deal with the ramifications in a sober style with the kids, extended family, and greater community. You may feel desperate to get him or her back home and find yourself compromising yourself in the process, or you may feel confused and scared about what’s next.

Our Divorce Coach, Cherie Morris, can help you in all these scenarios. With her referral network and mindset coaching, she will help you create a plan for success, including referrals to therapeutic, financial, and legal resources as needed. She will continue to be present for you each step of the way.

You aren’t alone.

We are here to help. Contact us today by calling our coach, Cherie Morris, first at 240.252.3349 Ext. 812, to get started on your next chapter!